Friday 15 August 2014

day dreaming

 God made this world a unique place, you are surrounded by many faces and different personalities. Some of them may be of your liking and others not. These personalities carry, many variations to them, bad ones with good intentions, and good ones with greed, dishonesty and selfishness.  Individuals who are torn apart with hardships and poverty   , others swimming in the pool of wealth, comfort and luxury, mostly acquired by wrong means. And many who are right, or wrong or in between.

                                        

I am writing this piece for  those individuals who  are  are well read , talented , good looking , belonging to a nice background but somewhere they do not know the purpose of their existence on this earth . There are huge number of people who have this syndrome. Even though they are very creative they are unable to make a connection with the people around them. We find this category all around the world, the person writing this is also part of it.




This breed is mostly in solitude, because people don’t understand them, or they don’t understand people. For them public life is very uncommon, drenched  in depression, negative thoughts, and diminishing future , they think the talent they have got is of no use , because when they show it  they don’t get  appreciation , or even response . They are constantly made realize that, if they go with their creativity they will end up on streets.





On the other hand if their talent is appreciated and given the right direction, they can be of immense creativity, and high intellectuality .they can run like a wild horse perusing their talent  and honing it , because they now believe  that  it’s getting to the right place  and people are knowing about it . They have the feeling that, now life is worth living .these people are so full of spirit in their good days that they can move earth and sky for what they want  but All this may go nowhere when some circumstances occur and they have to quit. 

                                       
      

Now since he is far away from the work he liked, and no longer exercising his talents, he takes to depression and loneliness, the world seems to be a burden ,its pleasure and musings no longer attract him, this detachment leads  to various addictions and bad lifestyle. In his thoughts he might think himself as the person he so dearly wanted to be, but since reality does not offer him that, he may be only living that in his fantasies and imaginations. Most failed artists take their professions in their fantasies, and imagine of being what they want, which they are not in reality. And they know that no one or no circumstances can take that position away from him and he can be exactly what he wants to be.It is a serious syndrome.






This syndrome is called  DAYDREAMING , a  detachment from one's immediate surroundings, during which a person's contact with reality is blurred and substituted with a visionary fantasy, especially one of happy, pleasant thoughts, hopes or ambitions, imagined as coming to pass, and experienced while awake. This if for some time is healthy because a little day dreaming might bring positive ness and make you enthusiastic. , but if it’s going on endlessly, then you might be in a problem. Dreaming without end in bright daylight about something which you could not achieve in the real world is a serious issue. These vague fantasies may be harmful as they slowly cuts you away from the present.. This may cause trouble not only to you, but also your companions and caretakers who wants your subdued activities away and bring you back to the real world.What is the remedy.



 

The remedy for this is very simple , let the person do what he wants , he might become  poor  , will not have a good life , or might be in a pool of debts , whatever might be his situation , he would still be happy as he is perusing his talent , it’s a matter of time that his art will be recognized and he will get  all those things he didn’t have .Only the professional degrees like Doctor , Engineer ,chartered accountant or a nine to five job , don’t give money , being an artist  also do .

  

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